She Finishes First
Intensity level: Normal & Romantic
Tonight, her orgasm comes first. No exceptions. Whether by hand, mouth, or toy, his finish follows only after hers.
How to try this
Make a clear agreement before anything starts: tonight, her orgasm is the priority. Use whatever combination of hands, mouth, or a toy works best for her. He doesn't finish until she has, no rushing, no splitting focus. Once she's there, he can follow however feels right.
Why couples love this
When she knows the entire session is oriented around her pleasure first, it removes the mental pressure to perform or hurry. That kind of focused attention often leads to stronger, more relaxed orgasms, and he gets to feel like the reason it happened.