Anal Fingering: External
Intensity level: Wild
During foreplay, he uses a well-lubricated finger to stimulate her externally at the anus, slow, patient circles. No internal penetration. The external sensation alone is its own distinct experience.
How to try this
Use generous lubrication. With one finger, stimulate the exterior of her anus using slow, patient circles, no internal penetration. Read her responses carefully. Pressure and speed are entirely guided by her comfort and pleasure. This is an exploration, not a destination. Stay external.
Why couples love this
External anal stimulation introduces a sensation that's distinct from anything else in the foreplay repertoire. The nerve density of the area means even gentle external attention produces a surprisingly strong response. For many, the novelty of attention to a usually-ignored zone is both physically and psychologically charged.