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Anilingus + Her Self-Stimulation

Intensity level: Wild

He uses his tongue on her anus while she uses a toy or her own hand on her clitoris simultaneously. She controls her own stimulation entirely; his only job is his mouth.

How to try this

She positions herself on all fours or lies face down with hips elevated. He uses his tongue on her anus while she uses a toy or her hand on her clitoris simultaneously. She controls all of her own stimulation; his only focus is his mouth. Communication about pressure and pace is essential.

Why couples love this

Dual-zone stimulation, anal oral and clitoral self-touch, produces a layered sensation that's qualitatively different from either alone. The combination activates two distinct nerve networks simultaneously, and her control of one while he handles the other creates a coordinated pleasure that builds from two directions at once.

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