Dominant Partner Takes Charge
Intensity level: Adventurous
One partner leads, setting the pace, giving directions, deciding what happens next. The other follows without question. Switch if you want.
How to try this
Decide who leads. The dominant partner sets the pace, gives clear directions, and decides what happens next, where to touch, how to move, when to stop. The other follows without initiating. After a set time, you can switch roles. The clarity of the roles is what creates the charge.
Why couples love this
Clearly defined roles strip away the negotiation that can slow things down. The partner taking charge gets to design the experience, and the partner following gets to surrender fully. Both positions carry their own specific pleasure, power and trust, control and release.