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Hair Pull During Kissing

Intensity level: Adventurous

During a deep kiss, slowly gather a handful of hair at the base of the skull and pull the head back gently.

How to try this

During a deep, sustained kiss, slowly slide one hand up the back of their neck and into their hair. Gather a handful at the base of the skull, not at the ends. Pull gently but firmly, tilting their head back. Hold the position for a few seconds while you kiss their exposed throat.

Why couples love this

A well-executed hair pull during a kiss creates an instant shift in dynamic, from equal to led, from soft to firm. The slight vulnerability of the exposed throat, combined with the firmness of the grip, produces a surge of arousal that's both physical and psychological.

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