Mutual Masturbation, Side by Side
Intensity level: Adventurous
Touch yourselves while watching each other. Show your partner exactly what you like, it's one of the most intimate and educational things a couple can do.
How to try this
Lie side by side or facing each other. Each of you touches yourself while watching the other do the same. Don't reach over. Let the distance and the watching be the connection. Show your partner exactly what you like, speed, pressure, rhythm. This is an education and an intimacy simultaneously.
Why couples love this
Mutual masturbation is one of the most honest sexual acts a couple can share. It says: this is what I actually feel, this is how I actually move. The vulnerability of showing someone your real self-pleasure creates a closeness that carries forward into everything else you do together.