Phone Sex During the Workday
Intensity level: Wild
One partner calls in the middle of the day and narrates exactly what's going to happen when they're together.
How to try this
One partner calls the other in the middle of the workday, when they're at their desk, in the car, somewhere completely mundane. In a calm voice, describe exactly what's going to happen tonight. Be graphic. Be specific. Then say goodbye normally. The rest of the day handles itself.
Why couples love this
An explicit phone call during a normal workday creates a cognitive dissonance that's deeply arousing. The mundane context of the call, fluorescent lights, office noise, contrasted with the graphic content creates a private world between two people that makes the remaining hours feel electric.