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Remote-Controlled Vibrator: Out of the House

Intensity level: Adventurous

She wears remote-controlled vibrating underwear while out to dinner, running errands, or anywhere with other people around. He holds the remote and decides when and how much. She has to hold her composure. By the time they're home, the foreplay has already been going for hours.

How to try this

She wears the vibrating underwear out, to dinner, the store, a walk. He holds the remote and decides when to activate it and at what intensity. She has to maintain composure in public while he controls her arousal from across the table. By the time they're home, the foreplay has been happening for hours.

Why couples love this

The power dynamic of secret public stimulation is intoxicating for both partners. She gets the thrill of hidden arousal and the challenge of composure; he gets the power of controlling her experience from a distance. The shared secret between them in a room full of strangers is its own aphrodisiac.

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