She Sends a Video Note
Intensity level: Adventurous
During the day, she records a short video, face, voice, whatever she's comfortable with, describing exactly what she wants done to her tonight. He watches it once. Then they don't discuss it until they're together.
How to try this
During the day, she records a short video on her phone, face, voice, whatever she's comfortable with, describing exactly what she wants done to her tonight. She sends it. He watches it once. They don't discuss it until they're together. The video sits in his mind all day.
Why couples love this
A personal video note carries her voice, her face, and her desire in a format that's far more intimate than text. He watches it and replays it mentally for hours. The specificity of hearing her actual voice describing what she wants creates an anticipation that no written message can match.