Cowgirl
Intensity level: Normal & Romantic
She's on top, controlling depth and rhythm. He stays mostly still and lets her set the pace entirely.
How to try this
He lies flat on his back. She climbs on top, knees on either side of his hips, and sinks down at whatever pace feels right. His job is to stay still and let her find a rhythm that works, hands on her hips for contact, not for steering. She experiments with leaning forward, sitting upright, or rocking rather than bouncing until something clicks.
Why couples love this
This is the position where she gets to run the show entirely. The angle, the speed, the depth, all hers. For him, the view is spectacular and the surrender is its own kind of turn-on. It's a trust exercise wrapped in pleasure.