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He Holds Back Twice

Intensity level: Normal & Romantic

He deliberately backs off his own orgasm twice, slowing, stopping, changing position, before allowing himself the third approach.

How to try this

He pays close attention to his own arousal and deliberately backs off twice before allowing the finish. The first two times he feels himself getting close, he slows down, changes position, or pauses entirely. Only on the third approach does he let himself go all the way.

Why couples love this

Each time he backs off, the tension ratchets up another level. By the third approach, the buildup is so charged that the release is dramatically more intense. It also extends the session naturally and gives her more time in the best part of the experience.

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