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Mutual Ruin and Release

Intensity level: Wild

Both partners approach orgasm, and the other deliberately slows them down, three times each. Then full permission with no further interruption.

How to try this

Both partners take turns being brought to the edge, three times each, alternating. Each time one of you is close, the other deliberately slows or stops to prevent the finish. After three full edges each, both give full permission with absolutely no further interruption. Let it all go.

Why couples love this

The mutual nature of the edging creates a shared tension that bonds you together in the frustration and the eventual release. By the time you both finally let go, the buildup is so immense that the simultaneous release feels like a dam breaking, cathartic and overwhelming in the best way.

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