She Decides When He Finishes
Intensity level: Adventurous
She controls his stimulation in the final stretch by slowing, speeding up, and pausing. She decides when he's allowed to go. He waits for her word.
How to try this
In the final stretch, she takes complete control of his stimulation. She decides the pace, speeding up, slowing down, stopping entirely if she wants. He is not allowed to finish until she explicitly tells him he can. She reads his body and chooses the exact moment of release.
Why couples love this
Handing over control of the most involuntary moment in sex is a surprisingly deep act of trust. For him, the surrender is freeing. For her, the power of holding his finish in her hands, and choosing when to let it happen, is intoxicating.