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CAT: Coital Alignment Technique

Intensity level: Adventurous

Missionary, but he shifts his body slightly upward so his pelvis grinds directly against her clitoris with each movement. Dramatically higher chance of her finishing from penetration alone.

How to try this

Begin in standard missionary, then he shifts his entire body about two inches higher than normal, so his pelvis rides above hers rather than aligned with it. Instead of thrusting, he rocks forward and down in a slow grinding motion, keeping his pubic bone in direct contact with her clitoris. The key is sustained pressure and rhythm, not depth or speed.

Why couples love this

This small shift addresses the single biggest gap in penetrative sex, direct clitoral stimulation during intercourse. The sustained grinding pressure creates a building wave of sensation that's dramatically more likely to lead to her finishing from penetration alone. It's a game-changer hiding in plain sight.

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