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The Butterfly

Intensity level: Normal & Romantic

She lies on her back at the edge of the bed, he stands and lifts her hips to his level, entering from above. Her legs rest on his chest or over his shoulders. He controls all depth and angle; she receives completely.

How to try this

She lies on her back at the edge of the bed. He stands and lifts her hips up to his level, supporting her lower back and hips with his hands. Her legs rest against his chest or drape over his shoulders. Her upper back and shoulders stay on the mattress. He controls all depth and angle from the standing position. Start slowly, this angle goes deep.

Why couples love this

The lifted-hips angle produces a sensation that neither partner expects the first time. She gets to surrender entirely to being positioned and held, and the depth is unlike any lying-flat variation. It feels athletic without being difficult, and the role dynamic, him holding, her receiving, adds its own layer of intensity.

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