He Doesn't Stop Until She Finishes
Intensity level: Wild
Whatever position is chosen, it is a non-negotiable rule for the night: he does not transition to his finish until she's had hers.
How to try this
Before anything begins, agree on one rule for tonight: he does not transition to his own finish until she's had hers. Whatever position you choose, whatever pace works, however long it takes, her orgasm comes first, non-negotiable. He focuses entirely on reading her responses and adjusting to what's working. She communicates openly about what she needs.
Why couples love this
Removing the ambiguity about who finishes first transforms the entire dynamic. She can relax fully into her own experience without feeling rushed, and he can focus with singular purpose. The rule itself is an act of prioritization that she feels emotionally, and the eventual release for both partners is amplified by the patience that built it.