Missionary, Hand on Throat
Intensity level: Wild
Standard missionary, but one of his hands rests lightly on her throat without pressing. It is just present. Intensity shifts completely. Establish and agree upon this in advance.
How to try this
During standard missionary, he places one hand lightly on the front of her throat. The hand rests, it does not squeeze or press on the airway. This must be discussed and explicitly agreed upon before the encounter begins. The hand is a symbol of control, not a restriction of breathing. She signals immediately if it feels like too much; he removes it without hesitation.
Why couples love this
The light hand on the throat introduces a psychological intensity that transforms ordinary missionary into something charged with power and vulnerability. The trust required, for her to allow it, for him to hold it carefully, creates an intimacy that's different from tenderness. It's a controlled edge that both partners feel immediately.