Reverse Cowgirl, He Controls
Intensity level: Wild
She straddles reverse cowgirl, but he grips her hips with both hands and dictates all movement. She can feel it but not control it.
How to try this
She straddles him in reverse cowgirl, facing away, his hips beneath hers. Instead of her controlling the movement, he grips her hips firmly with both hands and dictates the entire rhythm, when she rises, when she lowers, how deep, how fast. She relaxes her legs and lets his hands do the work. He uses her hips as handles.
Why couples love this
Reverse cowgirl normally gives her all the control. Flipping that, keeping the position but handing the power to him, creates a dynamic where she feels everything but decides nothing. The visual from his perspective plus the physical control produces something that's commanding in a way that other him-on-top positions express differently.