Sitting on His Face
Intensity level: Wild
She kneels over his face, he performs oral from below. She controls pressure and movement. He has no other job.
How to try this
He lies flat on his back. She kneels over his face, positioning herself so his mouth is directly beneath her. She controls all pressure and movement by raising and lowering her hips, his hands can rest on her thighs for guidance but she leads. She can face his feet or his head depending on what angle works best. He focuses entirely on her with his mouth and tongue.
Why couples love this
The position reverses the usual dynamic entirely, she's above, in control, and his only role is to give. The power of deciding exactly how much pressure, where, and for how long creates a sense of ownership over her own pleasure that few other positions offer. For him, the single-minded focus on one task is its own kind of surrender.